Trauma to Essence TM
Breaking Your Bond With Trauma
Moving Into Core Self
Remaining A Victim
In order to break your magnetic bond with the Trauma Field you need to understand how it is structured. (We go into this in depth in the TE Training, but this is the essential set up).
We remain a victim when we stay under the influence of:
- Transgenerational trauma
- Collective Trauma
- Blaming the Mother
Vast magnetic Fields of unresolved grief congregate. Victims are people who have not accepted their Fate. These vast fields are connected with individuals in various ways. Regardless of objective reality and accuracy, later, “victims” who are still alive, then identify with and both feed off of and are fed off of by this Field. This is how Collective Trauma Fields and social oppression are held in place.
We refer to this as “victim consciousness.” As victims we feel innocent, just, entitled, self-focused, righteous, blaming, as though we Belong...and trapped.
This misidentification is the source of our planetary trauma.
Racism, patriarchy, misogyny, classism, capitalism, genocide, war, climate interference, chronic illness, and the rapid loss of our indigenous people (who carry the true memory of right relationship) are a result of “victim consciousness.”
Perpetrators are a form of victim. There is no difference between the two. They act together. One cannot exist without the other.
Victims are people who are driven by their need to Belong. We ALL begin this way in our families. No one is free of this Drive. Nor should they be. For the sake of survival and Belonging we will commit any act that is necessary. We will give up our very Soul to belong and survive.
We must Belong. Not belonging is death. This is also accurate energetically. When we try to exclude our families or parents, we can’t functionally survive. We become mentally and physically ill. We become porous, and we WILL connect to something else. Possession, (whether personal, ancestral, collective or spirit), is a symptom of this need to connect.
Trying to bypass this fact leads to yet more victims. People who try to spiritually bypass their Core Wound and Drive (to get to a false ideological Essence) are victims and continue the cycle of the Trauma Field.
When we identify with past victims, we immediately stop being in right relationship to our own Field as well as the Trauma Field, Generative Field, and the inherent Order of the Universe.
Instead of seeing the victims, we join them in trauma. We abandon all of them, ourselves and the future people we could be serving. We continue the cycle.
Stepping Out of the Cycle of Destruction
My greatest prayer is to do no harm. A state of equanimity and being in accord. I do not pray for things or try to manifest various realities. Positive Psychology and the Positive Thought movement are strategies on a vast level.
Our ultimate goal here is to identify Wound and Drive, step out of the Trauma Field, and live in our Core Self. From there, you will naturally embody your Essence. And come into true accord with your Purpose and Fate.
There is a very clear difference between the Trauma Field and the Generative Field
- Wound and Drive exists in the Trauma Field.
- Core and Essence exist in the Generative AND Archetypal Field
- And Truth is at the epicenter of it all
Once you can feel this difference, you have the essential piece. You will have agency. And you will be able to move your attention at will.
This is also called Sovereignty.
This is the one ESSENTIAL piece. To all healing work on any level and of every kind.
Within the Generative Field, the Core is:
- Connected to everything
- Relaxed in Absorption
- Solution oriented
- Oriented to a wide view
- Systems oriented
- Not porous
- In present time
- Open to learning
- Open to new information
Within the Trauma Field, your Parts may:
- Become porous
- Creating conflict
- Invite boundary rupture
- Get stuck in trances
- Control our behaviors
- Resist change
- Join victims
- Justify injustice
- Create further incongruence
- Create chaos
- Suck in
- Create illness
- Create addiction
- Become compulsive
- Stay in the past
- Insist they are correct
- Connect to Collective Trauma
- Be possessed
The Language of Parts and Core
Now that you get the really big picture let's break it down to initial steps.
Everyone knows the feeling of Parts.
Here are 4 simple ways to identify when you are in a Part:
- Every time you are having an inner dialogue with conflicting thoughts and feelings
- Anytime you are flooded by emotions
- Anytime you are not neutral, confident, peaceful, zestful, and thoughtful
- Anytime the group agrees with a certain attitude and you can’t cooperate
Your Core is:
Contained yet connected, calm, spacious, equanimous, breathing, aware of the needs of the whole system, discerning, wise.
Mixed! They can be both draining and supportive. We need to know the difference and find the parts that are creating chaos. And call on the Parts that support our Core knowing. Parts are either found in Trauma or Generative Fields.
What holds everything. They are spatial and can be felt and named. They are not actually subtle and we are interacting with various ones at all times.
Use language like this to keep discerning the difference:
“Part of me feels ______”
“A part of me is so scared right now”
“My Core is so calm right now”
“Little me really needs a hug”
“This part of me is so protective”
“I can feel a part of me watching all of this calmly”
“My Core is stronger when I say _________”
Keep it simple.
Trust that the seed will grow.
Stay out of your own way...by trusting your innate intelligence and drive to be whole.
Appreciate how exquisitely complex you are.